To answer your question, the words, “I love you,” tend to hold some of the greatest value. The way I see it, is that there are different types of love in this world. There is the love you have for a friend. The love you have for a family member. The love you have for an object, passion, hobby, etc. And finally, the love you have for the person you call your significant other. Read more >
Hello – it sounds like you have a case of “my boyfriends insecure” on your hands. He likes you SOOOOO much and wants to spend every second with you! It’s ok, so he’s got a major case of puppy love going on…it’s nothing to be afraid of. He’s got a 24-hour YOU boner, how awesome is that? Take it as a compliment and keep up with how you “feel”. Read more >
What a little effing d-bag this guy is! You don’t owe him shit! Bottom line, if he has a girlfriend, he should be going to her for oral sex/sex/sexting/etc. NOT YOU!!!! Sorry, this is not an insult to you, but more insulting to his girlfriend. If I was her I would want to know what is going on. This guy can’t be serious about his relationship at all because his actions say the complete opposite. Read more >
HAHA! Love the Neuromancer reference. Sounds like Dr. Barbarella is your girl! But now, let’s talk about this issue of yours. I will in no way, EVER label myself a pickup artist. I don’t know how to pick up girls, but what I do know is how to talk to people, and THAT is what you need to focus on. Keep in mind what it’s like to be on the opposite end of things. To be the girl getting approached by a guy, or creepily hit on. Read more >
You’re not gonna like my answer on this one. Personally, why settle for anything less than amazing?! I mean, probably explains why I’m still single, but I refuse to just settle in life. I feel like a lot of people give in to “good enough”. Like, is this honestly what you want the rest of your life to be? With THIS guy? I know you want it to work out, but there’s a certain amount of fear and naivety there. Read more >
Anonymous, Here’s the deal chick-a-dee. When men are into you, all the tell-tale signs are there. It’s almost as obvious as symptoms of a common STD. . . kidding!!! But really, the signs are there. A guy will generally go out of his way to see you, talk to you, text message you, e-mail you, etc. He will make the time to put life on pause and talk to you about whatever it is that might be happening. Read more >
Honestly, it seems like you’re a bit insecure because of whatever happened between you and your ex. It’s natural to want to grab a hold of someone when the butterflies kick in and your mind is on “repeat” about them. However, it’s also very important that you have a give/take relationship with distance. Read more >
Oh that good old dating the older brother but are good friends with the sister situation! Here’s the deal Lilly. Bottom line: if you like him and you are really into him and it’s not some kind of sick game, this could be a really good thing. Just keep in mind that this sounds like an affair. The thrill of an affair is that it is fun. It creates secrecy, and goes against morals/ethics/etc. Read more >
Ok, can you blame the men??? You have to ask yourself this: Who doesn’t love Gymnastic Barbie? Unfortunately, it is the mindset of a man. All men really do appreciate a woman who can work it like Gumby. Flexibility is a highly admired quality both in and out of the bedroom. Men love the idea of a naked woman who can move and bend in ways that they can only imagine. Read more >
WOAH NELLY! Guy of your dreams?!?!?! Let’s rewind to the part where this duder is telling you to keep your best friend (who happens to be dating said duder) in the dark about your hook-ups and feelings for each other. Read more >
Well… this doesn’t sound pleasant at all. Fact of the matter is, it sounds like your guy doesn’t want to get married. It might be a generalized statement, or maybe he just doesn’t want to get married to you. It is one of the two, and the reality is, this is something you need to flat out just ask him about. Read more >
…. so here’s the thing about that …. It’s creepy and silly that someone you’re not even seeing is asking you for nakedness. Don’t say that to him (unless it gets super weird, then go for it) … but keep it in mind as you evaluate the situation. There are really only a handful of options. 1. Be more abrasive on your stance. Read more >
Jessica, There are no unspoken rules for this one. The rules are whatever you want to make them. We actually will be featuring an episode in the near future, specifically regarding this topic and how to handle it. But since that is a ways away, I might as well suggest this piece of advice. I understand that your friends broke up, and I am sorry to hear that, but at the same time, this is part of your life that you are photographing. Read more >
Cori, This sounds like the typical “wanting what you can’t have” situation here. You’re like the hunter that kills the deer just to kill it, but doesn’t want to eat it. You like the challenge, the sport, the game, the “hunt”…but when it comes time for the work, you lose interest. Read more >
Dude, sounds like you might have more than your bargaining for. It is one thing to have a cute stuffed animal or some kidrobot toys on the shelves or bed. . . but it’s a whole different story if there are more than just a few. Unless she’s holding onto Chatty Cathy, Glow Worm, Alf, Teddy Ruxpin, Raggedy Ann, and a 1959 Barbie, for ebay purposes, than I’d say there’s more to it. A LOT MORE TO IT. Read more >
How long into a relationship is it acceptable to ask your partner to pop your pimples or help out with other gross things of that matter? I know some couples help each other out by getting rid of their partners backne (pimples of the back), or the occasional “obviously noticeable nose hair booger”, but when is an acceptable time to do it? Or is there ever an acceptable time to take it to that level? Comfort is part of being human and
Dude…seriously?!? The only person you should be admiring is YOUR OWN WIFE and her beauty! If you’re married there should be NO reason to look and “admire’ or “appreciate” another women. Its even worse that your doing it right in-front of your wife!!! How rude, inconsiderate, and disrespectful can you be?! You may be thinking, “It was a harmless look. Read more >
Well good thing you came (easy joke) to the professionals (vince loves giving blowjobs) … seriously though (he’s super good at it) … but really… Being overwhelmed at the prospect of intimate relations is completely normal. Whether you know what you’re doing or not doesn’t always matter. Read more >
okay … this kinda sucks. There’s no way around it … in high school, even middle school (frighteningly enough), showing the goods will get you all the attention. Even though the desired attention is no where near as good as it’s made out to be, it’s still wanted, so it’s understandable to be bummed when you don’t have it. Read more >
Sara – I appreciate the boldness of this question. Usually people make this decision on their own; right, wrong, or indifferent. The fact that you’re putting this out there means that you really care about your friend and deep down don’t want to hurt her. If you’re asking for an “answer” instead of “advice”, I’d say don’t do it. Read more >
I am going to be straight forward here. And only because if I avoid asking this question, I am pretty sure the problem may never be resolved. Whittney, have you ever slept with this guy? I only ask, because when sex gets involved, it tends to cause a lot of problems. Some people view sex as a person giving themselves entirely to whomever they are sleeping with. Read more >
Help is on the way Meggers! I can completely sympathize with how you feel. You’re trying to put yourself out there for someone to notice and take interest (albeit in a non-skankerriffic manner), but alas, to no avail. Read more >
I hate to point fingers , but from the sounds of it, the problem here isn’t so much with him…it’s all due to the fact that you’re leading him on HARDCORE!!! You see, the whole friends with benefits (FWB’s for short) bull-honky can only last so long. Read more >
Oh, don’t you worry homeskillet this episode is already scheduled for Season 2! It’s a huge issue…sometimes. Depends on what you ate for dinner. The worst though is when you don’t mean to fart. Like, as a dude, let’s face it, you’re almost expected to. So when you do indeed fart for the first time it’s almost better to make a scene out of it. Read more >
“That Affliction t-shirt makes you look bad ass, bro!” But really… In the case of terrible RELATIONSHIP advice however, I would imagine these examples would suffice: 1) ”It’s TOTALLY fine to hook up with other people on the side when you’re in a relationship…I mean, you’re not married yet, RIGHT?!” Wrong. Read more >
Sometimes, it’d be impossible for us to make up some of the questions so for this…awesome opportunity, I say thank you. Now, let’s get down to what it takes to conjure up a great evening and getting a little birthday sex. #1) Give It Some Time Anticipation = Awesome Sure you could have him come over, throw him down on the bed and go right at it. Hell, maybe you don’t even make it to the bed…those times are fun too. Read more >
Men. So unpredictable with their actions…sometimes…but this doesn’t seem to be the case. Before you go any further you have to start asking yourself a few questions. Read more >
I personally think its magically delicious, but too each their own. It seems like this guy actually cares for you, and doesnt care about being percieved as…do I care say it???….SENSITIVE?! Finding a guy to let down his guard and show his sensitive side is like finding a pair of Christian Louboutin’s on sale- needless to say, its pretty rare. Read more >
Okeedokee … do not call it stalking. There are certain phrases that are best left out of the “i like someone” realm, and stalking or stalker are definitely at the top of that list. So axe the moniker, it would be best if you never spoke of it again. Read more >
Just for the record, I don’t know if I’ve ever been completely taught what the “bases” are, but let’s give it a shot. Figure if anything, we can sort it out together as we move along. Here goes! First Base Now depending on how far into this we get, I think this is like kissing. I haven’t actually plotted out where we’re going with this yet, so I don’t know what would fall into each category. Read more >
Lesson one … kissing one dude warrants the privilege of not being good at kissing, so enjoy the excuse while you have it. Two … Over thinking the quality of the kiss you’re engaged in will inevitably ruin it, that is almost a guarantee, so keep it in mind. Three … Try not to let previous make-outs, good or bad, play any role in a current make-out. It’s just not a good idea. Read more >
When it comes to the boyfriend’s parental units, you have to remember to treat them the same as your parents. In this day and age, it seems like so many people forget to respect their elders, and others tend to remember it and get a little too comfortable. The way I see it is that you should go about it like you’re meeting his best friends for the very first time. And yes, you should be yourself. Read more >
There is no way to put it lightly, this is a text book example of “I’ve got good news … I’ve got bad news …” The good news is you’re not wrong for questioning the behavior of those around your boyfriend. Jealousy, while all too often abused, is merely a sign of commitment. Used properly, it can show your significant other just how much you care. Read more >
Absolutely not! Just because kids are getting knocked up at 13, doesn’t mean that’s the new age to be an expert at all things sexual. God! Can you imagine if that was it by like 16?! You’ve already done it all before you even graduate high school. No…just…NO! Not pathetic at all. Encouraged, actually. You’re a damn fine upstanding sexual citizen of the world. Read more >
First and foremost, please refer to the image on the left. Secondly, why in the H, E, double hockey sticks are you in a relationship for if you don’t even WANT to bring your girlfriend out on a date, let alone be romantic and spontaneous with her? But really…I mean, I’m gonna level with you here for a second Broseph Stalin: these are the things you shouldn’t have to be TOLD to do by your significant other. Read more >
In short? Be honest. Truth be told, sometimes having too much of a good thing can be bad. And in this case, it can just out right be terrible. Just imagine four raging women who are all having, ‘that time of the month,’ coming at you all at once. Read more >
Anything under 1 month is a little too soon. Even 2 months and you’re still cutting it close. That is unless you have known this person since you were pushing each other on the playground or even in diapers. The way I see it, is if you have never met any of their close friends, gone on at least 4 solid dates, made out, maybe even had sex, and talked about favorites: colors, sports, music, etc. Read more >
Personally, I find it to be a toss up to introduce any added “help” into your bedroom routine. It really all depends on your relationship with your significant other; if you’re both very open about your likes/dislikes with each other, this could definitely be an awesome journey. Read more >
Well, I don’t think theres an easy way around this one…especially when the male ego is located in their pants. In my opinion telling your parenter the sex sucks will make them feel insecure and less like a man. Think about it. Guys think about sex every 52 seconds, thats more than once a minute. Its just what they do, its who they are… especially when their bodies are bathed in testosterone. Read more >
First of all, you cant call yourself a friend because if you respected him and his relationship you wouldn’t be in this boat. I just don’t understand people who cheat. Whats the point?? If your not happy in your current relationship get the F out of it! No, but instead people think they can have their cake and eat to. Read more >